In every relationship there are rough phases when things turn unpleasant and arguments start happening for every small reasons between the couples. Although, unpleasant experiences are normal at times when you are in a relationship but many couples start thinking that their relationship has some problem. Well, it’s not all true because unpleasant experiences, disappointments and arguments etc. are all signs that you have arrived at a phase in your relationship where you and your partner should start exploring new horizons in relationship and grow together by appreciating each others smallest gestures and embracing beautiful moments. But the question is how would you do it? That’s where relationship coaching comes in and an experienced relationship coach can help you reach that next level in your relationship smoothly.
There’s literally no institution that teaches how to have fulfilling and satisfying relationship with your partner. When you start a new relationship, you can’t seem think of unpleasant moments or arguments in your beautiful relationship because you and your partner have just started a new relation together and both are enjoying each others company. But after a while there comes a time when we start fighting, heated arguments take place for small reasons and you start thinking that relationship is not working. If you’ve been having discord between you…that growing time in your relationship is now.
I have a different approach unlike other coaches when it comes to relationship coaching and men counselling as I work towards fixing broken relationships. The first step is to create a space where a couple can feel understood and respected, so that productive conversations can begin. It helps me discover what’s at the reason of the conflict, disconnection and unpleasant experiences in your relationship, I work closely with you to build upon the strengths in your relationship to create positive and lasting change that will help you grow together for years to come.
It doesn’t matter what’s the reason of conflict between you two, I am here to help you build a lasting bond with your partner. My experience and holistic approach to marriage counselling can guide you to a new level of connection, communication, and authentic satisfaction in your relationship.
What is relationship coaching?
Relationship coaching can help people achieve greater satisfaction and fulfillment in their relationship. A Relationship coach does not necessarily work with both partners in a relationship. Relationship Coaching helps couples explore their negative beliefs about Relationships and let go of painful thoughts whilst achieving and creating their own relationship vision.
Relationship coaches also work with clients who are single and would like to be in a relationship but due to their troubled relationship history they have difficulty in finding a suitable partner and or have struggles in maintaining a healthy relationship.In other cases coaches meet with both partners, and teach communication skills, conflict resolution, and other coaching tools meant for couples to achieve greater intimacy, playfulness, and the ability to fall in love with the same person many over and over again. Relationship coaches typically have experience in a variety of relationship dynamics, from romantic relationships to family relations and friendships.
Is relationship coaching the similar to couples therapy?
Relationship coaching is not couples therapy, just as life coaching is not psychotherapy. As a metaphor therapists could be seen as the surgeons, and coaches as personal trainers.
If you’re experiencing relationship troubles, a coach might help you clear up your thinking, get you to see things from a different angle and help you set inspiring new goals. However, in the case of ongoing painful issues, unhealed childhood wounds and mental illnesses, coaching may not be the right approach and couples therapy would be recommended instead
Unlike therapy, relationship coaching rarely requires you to re-tell your childhood story, but it can help you find peace with where you are in the present moment.
Secret to a great relationship with your partner
Relationships are not just about boyfriends, girlfriends or spouse, it’s also about the interaction we have with our children, work colleagues, neighbors, friends, business partners, bosses, mother & father in laws, in fact any connection we have with another human being. It sounds so simple: say what you mean. But all too often, what we try to communicate gets lost in translation despite our best intentions. We say one thing, the other person hears something else, and misunderstandings, frustration, and conflicts ensue.
Fortunately, you can learn how to communicate more clearly and effectively. Whether you’re trying to improve communication with your spouse, kids, boss, or coworkers, you can improve the communication skills that enable you to effectively connect with others, build trust and respect, and feel heard and understood.
WHY IS COACHING A GOOD IDEA?
Scientific studies show that coaching can help anyone overcome challenges both in life and relationships. It increases life satisfaction and professional success and improves relationships. It can also help you fix broken relationships.
The Journal of Positive Psychology found that coaching has positive effects on the outcomes of performance/skills, well-being, coping, work attitudes and goal-directed self-regulation.
Also, ongoing coaching is more effective than a one-time intervention. A study showed that while group training with managers increased their productivity by 22%, including a one-on-one, eight-week coaching session for the managers pushed up productivity by 88%.
How Can I Help you as a Relationship Coach?
I am a certified relationship coach and strive to teach strong and mindful communication skills, personable behavior skills using positive interaction, anger management and ability to overcome situations that lead to unnecessary arguments.
I can show you how to get what you need and what you truly want out of life by following tested and proven methods of effective personal communication and posturing.
Learn to value your relationship with your partner and their opinions. They are the most important person in your life. Learn to know your needs and wants. Learn to express your thoughts without infringing on the rights of others.
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